Thoughts on Thinking

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"I just don't want to think about it tonight..." Does this sound familiar? I can remember quiet a few times I have muttered/thought/spoke this sentence. Then I have to stop myself and think "Why not?" Taking a breather and thinking about major events or things in your life is a good way to feel more assured in your actions. Of course this is merely my perspective but I really enjoy a good think. Some may say I over analyze everything and can often take a long time to decide on something but that is merely because I do not feel rushed ever to jump to any decisions. I feel it is much more important to make the right decision then the quick one. There is simply no reason to rush through anything.

When something bad happens and it hurts to think about it, people tend to run away from it. They busy themselves with superficial tasks in order to distract themselves from the problem at hand. It is my opinion that doing such things only allows the problem to spread roots into your being. The roots grow like weeds and over time become tougher and tougher to pull out. This is why it is good to take the time to think about problems as they come. First you need to determine if said problem or outcome is capable of change in your favor. If it is not in your power to change the situation then you must figure out a way to change or adapt yourself. This maybe as simple as accepting whatever is going on and figuring out a way to be happy in whatever the situation is. OR it could be as difficult as having to change your whole attitude and something about yourself in order to make the situation smoother. If it is in your power to change the situation for the better then you need to determine how to go about doing that.

So often our pride gets in the way of being able to fully think about something. We often jump to  conclusions that we would typical draw upon based on the original personality and thought schematics we have put in place. Thus we  are unable or unwilling to change our thought processes in our favor. The truth is that the human mind is not so rigid. So often if you can sit down and think about something and in-vision all ways of viewing said situation you should be able to chose which way you want to think in order to remain as happy as possible,

To be continued..... muhahahahaha